Fear/Self-Worth Dynamics
“I can do this alone but it is so much better when the people around me operate in self-worth.” - Trevor Dale
Introduction:
I've listened to my gut/universe/God and let my life be driven by those directions. I joined the army reserves, went into engineering, switched out of engineering, got my CFA designation, ran 100 miles, won a 100 mile race, started an investment firm and so much more all because I could use logic for 80% of the decision and had to go on hope, faith and belief for the last 10-20% to know that things will work out.
This can be unsettling to people around you but there are those who will show up exactly with what you need. This is the Relational Energy between Fear and Self-Worth. Operating from a position of self-worth gives you massive leverage on the outcome of a situation.
In this article you'll discover:
The Power of Self-Worth
Fear: The Great Deceiver
Choosing Your Path
Building a Foundation for Growth
Embracing Self-Worth Over Fear: A Journey to Unleashing Human Potential
In today's fast-paced world, we often find ourselves battling between two distinct states of mind: fear and self-worth. This struggle defines not only our approach to challenges but also our ability to reach our fullest potential.
I recently had a personal encounter with this dichotomy when I decided to run a 100-mile ultramarathon. The journey was gruelling, taking 21 hours and 44 minutes, but it wasn't just the physical challenge that tested me—it was the mental battle against fear and doubt, both my own and from those around me.
The Power of Self-Worth
The concept of self-worth is fundamental to unlocking human potential. When we operate from a place of self-worth, we are driven by a sense of value and confidence in our abilities. This internal belief propels us forward, regardless of external challenges or naysayers who might not understand our journey.
Throughout my training and the race itself, I was constantly reminded of the importance of maintaining a strong sense of self-worth. There were moments when doubt crept in, when the voices of those around me questioned my decisions and abilities. "Is this safe? What if you get injured?" they asked. In those moments, I realized that their fears were not my own—they were projections of their insecurities. By recognizing this, I chose to rise above and continue pursuing my goal.
Fear: The Great Deceiver
Fear is a powerful force, often masquerading as a protective instinct. However, it can also be a great deceiver, convincing us to remain in our comfort zones and avoid taking risks. Fear can paralyze us, keeping us from achieving our dreams and reaching our full potential.
In the context of my ultramarathon, fear showed up in various forms: fear of failure, fear of judgment, and fear of the unknown. But instead of succumbing to these fears, I chose to confront them. I decided to use fear as a motivator rather than a barrier, turning it into fuel to push me further. This shift in mindset allowed me to see fear for what it truly is—an opportunity for growth and a chance to prove to myself what I am capable of.
Choosing Your Path
The journey to maximizing human potential is not about eliminating fear but rather choosing how we respond to it. We have the power to decide whether we operate from a place of fear or from a place of self-worth. When we choose self-worth, we affirm our value and capabilities, setting ourselves on a path to success.
Reflecting on my ultramarathon experience, I learned that success is not solely about crossing the finish line; it's about the mindset we cultivate along the way. It's about believing in our worth and capabilities, even when others doubt us. It's about pushing through the discomfort and proving to ourselves that we are capable of more than we ever imagined.
Building a Foundation for Growth
To elevate human potential, we must create a strong foundation based on self-worth. This involves setting boundaries, making decisions aligned with our values, and surrounding ourselves with individuals who support and uplift us. By doing so, we create an environment that fosters growth, resilience, and excellence.
As you embark on your journey to increase your potential, remember that every step you take from a place of self-worth is a step toward a more fulfilled and successful life. Embrace the challenges, confront your fears, and believe in your ability to achieve greatness. Your potential is limitless, and the only thing standing between you and your dreams is the decision to pursue them with unwavering confidence and self-belief.
Welcome to Elevated Executive—where we empower you to rise above and achieve your highest potential.
